Purls of Wisdom


A few years ago, not long before the pandemic, I began to knit. I'd learned decades ago from a friend and never finished anything. Then, quickly dropped it.

Over the years, I picked up the needles on and off but didn't accomplish much.

But, this time, wow, I got hooked (pun intended). I became a knitting machine.

That year, I made hats and scarves for everyone. I mean EVERYONE!

Last week I shared my tips for avoiding stress and overwhelm this holiday season.

Well, I haven't made everyone handmade gifts since then. In part because it's too stressful and in part because not everyone appreciates the work and thought that goes into that kind of gift.

If you're a handcrafter, that's another good tip for you.

In any case, by happenstance, I discovered lace knitting shortly after my hats and scarves phase, which involves intricate patterns that require a host of new techniques and stitches.

And, then, I found lace knitting with beads. And, oh man, that was like discovering nirvana.

Before knitting, I'd been feverishly making my own (and others) jewelry for several years. So, to combine my new love with my old love. Unbelievable!

Though I've never sold my jewelry or knitwork, an old friend recently commissioned some tops from me, which was totally unexpected, a little bit stressful, and very flattering.

So, who knows what the future will hold :-).

One happy accident of spending the past several years making and giving away my handcrafted wares has been the many lessons I've learned, which pretty much apply to any business.

Here are just a few:

  • Just because you love doing something doesn't mean you'll love getting paid to do it.
    The more successful you are, the less time you'll likely have for the thing you love.
  • More often than not, the exchange of money transforms an act of love into an act of commerce.
    Be prepared for this and the expectations that come with it.
  • If you strive for perfection, nothing you do will ever measure up.
    Most of the time, we're the only ones who see our mistakes.
  • If you live for a challenge, then you have to keep challenging yourself.
    Don't expect others to do that for you.
  • Don't be afraid to ask others for advice.
    This is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Until next week, I hope you enjoy whatever your version of sweater weather is.

P.S. Looking for some guidance on growing your business? Let's talk about how I can help.

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Easily Said & Done

I help entrepreneurs leapfrog over the typical potholes that derail most small businesses with inspiration, motivation, education, and support across a wide range of business topics drawn from over a decade of running my own business, teaching entrepreneurship for the City of New York, and coaching and consulting privately with dozens of women and minority small business owners. Honestly, why go it alone when help is an email away?

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